heskyus us
I saw this on Kuya Ederic’s post who saw this here.
So, this is about a People Asia article written by Malu Fernandez titled From Boracay to Greece. page1 page.
here are the key statements:
However I forgot that the hub was in Dubai and the majority of the OFWs (overseas Filipino workers) were stationed there. The duty-free shop was overrun with Filipino workers selling cell phones and perfume. Meanwhile, I wanted to slash my wrist at the thought of being trapped in a plane with all of them.
While I was on the plane (where the seats were so small I had bruises on my legs), my only consolation was the entertainment on the small flat screen in front of me. But it was busted, so I heaved a sigh, popped my sleeping pills and dozed off to the sounds of gum chewing and endless yelling of “HOY! Kumusta ka na? At taga sann ka? Domestic helper ka rin ba?” Translation: “Hey there? Where are you from? Are you a domestic helper as well?” I though I had died and God had sent me to my very own private hell.
On my way back, I had to bravely take the economy flight once more. This time I had already resigned myself to being trapped like a sardine in a sardine can with all these OFWs smelling of AXE and Charlie cologne while Jo Malone evaporated into thin air.
All in all, it’s been a pretty good summer. Jetting from the Aegean Sea to the Pacific may sound a bit pretentious until you wake up in economy class smelling like air freshener.
OMG, another one of those people.
What’s up with her. I mean, the article was written as if just to brag about her Addidas, her Havianas and her pedicured toes, and nobody really cares.
I am not really that good of a writer, or an editorial writer. I am not a good writer, period. But this article is… err… let’s just look at it this way – I didn’t even see the from Boracay to Greece part, just the flashy stuff.
Is that, err, responsible journalism? Or is that journalism at all?
Then, of course a lot of people responded to that article, so she wrote the following response
As I type this, I’d like you to know that it’s not about whining, complaining and bitching but just stating the facts. Just recently, I wrote a funny article in my magazine column and my friends thought it was hilarious. It was humorous and quite tongue-in-cheek, or at least I thought so, until the magazine got a few e-mails from people who didn’t get the meaning of my acerbic wit. The bottom line was just that I had offended the reader’s socioeconomic background. If any of these people actually read anything thicker then a magazine they would find it very funny. Most people don’t get the fact that they need bitches like me to shake up their world, otherwise their lives would be boring and mediocre. I obviously write for the a certain target audience and if what I write offends you, just stop reading.
Although it may sound elitist to you the fact is this country is built on the foundation of haves, have-nots and wannabes. One group will never get the culture of the other. Although I could mention that it is easier to understand someone who has a lower socioeconomic background that would entail a whole other page and frankly I don’t want to be someone to bridge the gap between socioeconomic classes. I leave that to the politicians in my family who believe they can actually help. Now I seriously ask you, am I being a diva or are people around me just lacking in common sense? Perhaps it’s a little of both!
You know, ma’am, there’s this thin line between being witty, writing the truth, and being offensive. Yours was definitely waaay too offensive.
You know, if I’m going to pretend to be a super rich person, still, that’s not funny. Ok, let me pretend that it’s funny. No I can’t.
Truth, you say? Here’s a little glimpse of reality. The last time I checked, Philippines is a third world country and people struggle to at least eat three times a day. And some families do this by sending a family member abroad, doing whatever they can – including being miles away from their loved ones – just so their families here in the Philippines could live a freaking decent life. Here’s your reality: there’s nothing f*cking funny about that.
I know, that there’s this socio-cultural barrier here in the country, but the most human thing to do is to at least respect those other people who can’t afford any of your flashy stuff.
Well, if you don’t know what’s the meaning of the ‘human thing to do’, i rest my case.
These are the times when you have to appreciate great column writers like Wilson Lee Flores, Celine Lopez and Jessica Zafra. They are witty, without even trying. And they make sense, too. Without the Addidas and Havianas and those pedicured toes.
Can you honestly spell SOCIAL CLIMBER?
I can now.

August 17th, 2007 at 3:21 pm
read and noted. thanks for putting in your 2 cents
August 17th, 2007 at 5:32 pm
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August 19th, 2007 at 8:47 pm
Geez..
The very reason why celine lopez is being loved by many including *ehem* yours truly..
Malu Fernandez huh..
August 20th, 2007 at 11:32 pm
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August 21st, 2007 at 10:21 pm
novia, may mas so-social climber pa pala saten?! sindakin yan!! ( :
August 24th, 2007 at 7:56 pm
Wow, I watched about it sa news. Grabe siya.. Ang babaw niya. And her humor sucks. Bago siya magsalita ng ganun tumulong muna siya sa ekonomiya ng bansa katulad ng mga OFWs natin! Nabadtrip talaga ako nung nabasa ko yan.
Yes, social climber nga. Sarap itapon ng pabango niya.
September 3rd, 2007 at 5:02 pm
Well people, after all that has been said and done about Ms. Malu Fernandez and about her supposed submission of her resignation paper both from People Asia Magazine and The Manila Standard Today, surprise, surprise. Today, her column in The Manila Standard – Divalicious came out to talk about, well, “make-up.” Seems like her resignation was not accepted. as dropped like a hot potato by People Asia Magazine after her Am I a diva? Or do you lack common sense? Actually, she beat them to the punch when she tendered her voluntary resignation.
I will admit this is only the fourth article that she has written that I’ve read since the netizens shook her to her senses. The first being the People Asia Article – From Boracay to Greece, second, her Am I a Diva! Or do you lack common sense?, third, her apology and “resignation”, and today’s article in Divalicious entitled, Unseen evil on your dressing table.
Interestingly, her column which came out today, September 3, 2007, Monday did not include names of High Society personalities and Brand Names. And it was toned down. Way way down. Her article tackled on how to keep the ladies’ make-up space and equipment clean to prevent rashes, eye infections and other allergic reactions and the expiration of make-up. And also a big surprise, is she even talked about how TO SAVE on lipstick and to not be a “label whore” since the more EXPENSIVE brands and the CHEAPER ones contains the same ingredients and costs about $0.50 to $1.00 to make. The difference in pricing in the end product lies mainly in its packaging and marketing.
For me, I’d say, judging from this latest column of hers in the Manila Standard Today, I think she has learned her lesson and learned it well.
For other netizens out there, what do you think?
I for one have friends and family who work abroad for a living. And it is disheartening at times that it tugs on my heartstrings when I talk to them on the phone or even over the internet and they hear the television or the radio in the background and they would ask to put the receiver closer to the source of the sound so just they can “hear” a little bit of home. More so if they are having problems or sick and they have no one there to care for them except other OFW’s who are free from their work schedules.
In my case, I’m not totally excluding the Manila Standard Today (MST) from my reading list. I believe there are more intelligible, sensible and credible writers in MST.
As of today, I promise myself that “Unseen evil on your dressing table” will be the fourth and last article I will read of Malu Fernandez, even if she comes out with another article displaying her “acerbic wit” and her brand of humor.
I leave it saying: There will be no complete absolution nor total restitution, in the absence of an equal and just amount of retribution. So there.